Intro:

Hi all, i feel like an update post is necessary going into 2026 as there will be some changes and experiments going on regarding the blog from this year. The main reason for that is because i want to finally push towards the dream of doing the blog full time rather than it always being an extremely exhausting side hobby/passion. I feel like there is 0 chance of it ever happening continuing with the current format so i am going to making changes and testing different things over the coming months.

Some of these changes and experiments will work and some will not, some you will like them and some of you wont depending on who you are. But i want you to know that the point of all this is to get the point of doing this blog full time and achieving that dream which will benefit everyone who has ever followed the blog. It will be beyond amazing.

What I mean by doing the blog full time and why i need to change things to make it happen:

I mean massively reducing my work hours and eventually quitting my job in order to have more time to spend on the blog, by that i mean more meets, parties, better write ups and so on. Basically, everything would improve massively as i would have the time and energy to focus more on it. As of now i am working a full time job 6 days a week and 8-10 hour shifts, that combined with having weekly new meet ups and running my community with organising different groups, parties and just having a normal social life is incredibly difficult for me.

Contrary to what some people think i make 0 ‘income’ from the blog, not once all year has more than 20 tickets been sold for a competition overall in a month. 20 tickets – 1000 pounds by the way. Usually competitions bring in 400-600 a month and most of that goes back into the blog by booking accommodation for meet ups. So as you see it is literally impossible with this level of interest to do this full time.

I am really not trying to sound like i don’t appreciate every entry because i really do but ultimately interest in the monthly comps isn’t growing and that needs to change if we’re to move forward.

I never want to run the blog as a business because its not, its my passion, you wouldn’t do all what i do for the blog to get a few hundred pounds a month if you were not seriously passionate about it, believe me. But the reality is i cannot live on fresh air and the work/blog balance is becoming too difficult to ever increase the volume as much as i would like in regards to blog meets/events.

What changes i am going to be making:

There will be bonus incentives to enter competitions moving forward, like i wrote earlier some people will not like them and some will but i have to experiment with this and see what works best.

Besides from that i am also going to be adding a members only section for the blog. A place where people can get exclusive access to bonus posts, more in depth q and a’s with me, making more personal time to talk one on one, even special sexting sessions and special member only comps/giveaways and so on. This will be in a monthly recurring payment format and be separate from the regular competitions. It will be the cost of a few drinks max.

Personal life changes:

Another thing worth mentioning is i have a new job opportunity that i will be starting in the next month, this job will be in the clothing industry, don’t ask me what as i am keeping it private for now. But it will be a better job than i currently have for sure. This work will see me travelling sometimes for it, which will mean that there will be a tighter schedule for meet ups, i will announce how that will effect things in due course. On the positive side i may be able to do more meet ups in different cities compared to usual.

Outro:

The dream remains the same, to do the blog full time, unlimited time for making it as good as i possibly can! That can only happen with your help too! If anyone has any feedback or ideas then i am always happy to hear them. Please bare with me over the next few months, if i put out some terrible idea then forgive me, i am just trying to reach my dream. Its literally now or never to go all in and try. Happy new year to everyone reading this, lets make 2026 an epic one!